read this somewhere -
Chapter 1.
I walk down a street and there's a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall
in. It takes forever to get out. It's my fault.
Chapter 2.
I walk down the same street. I fall in the hole again. It still takes
a long time to get out. It's not my fault.
Chapter 3.
I walk down the same street. I fall in the hole again. It's becoming
a habit. It is my fault. I get out immediately.
Chapter 4.
I walk down the same street and see the deep hole in the sidewalk. I
walk around it.
Chapter 5.
I walk down a different street.
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3 comments:
1) Wudnt agree wid "It'snot my fault"in Chapter 2...not that it is a blame game thing..but then if I am not responsible for what is happeneing to me..then who is???
2) Dont think walking down a different street wud be that easy....for all u know u wud land up in another hole there..and then u again change streets?? only to fall in another hole??? well ..better to walk in the same street...keep falli ng..atleast that way u r not in a delusiion that it was not ur fault..and u might b able to handle it better.....
Guess u shud put chapter 5 instead of chapter 4 and vice versa..
dumps, the 'it's not my fault' in chp 2 was meant to suggest that 'its takes maybe more than one fall to finally point the finger at ourseleves'....we usually just don't want to see our own mistakes, not until we have made too many of the same, that's us !!
and i don't agree with u'r point 2 - keep walking in the same street ? well, whoever said the street you were on was the right one? so does this mean just coz another way maybe/not wrong again, you keep walking down the same one.
i dont tend to agree life moves this way, does it ?
we make mistakes, at times repeat them, then we try out something better, the best we can think atleast. we may succeed / we may not. but i still haven't met any person who keeps walking the same street forever !
Birdie seems a li'l angry wid my comment..altho I hope I am just imagining things :-)
1) Well some ppl are stupid enuff to first point the finger at themselves and live with it thru out their life....no explanation from ne1 else is adequate for them..and they themselves dont look for them ..coz they think that they have found the weak link...I guess every1 does that sometimes..but some ppl do it more often than others...
2) Well I guess we both misunderstood the whole thing..I was more of talking towards a road to sucess...to ur dreams..and for me changing that dream wud mean changing wot u always wanted...and settle for something else..which might or might not be better ..that is not a point of debate...
As far as ur view point on u havent met ne1 who keeps on doing the same mistake again and again...knowing very well that they can be happier w/o doing it...well..from what I know...meet urself..meet me..and if u r able to find another road... then u will get rid of ur dark circles...and me of my smoking habit.....no more on this blog...
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